“He Was Using Her”: Why Priscilla Presley Never Trusted Michael Jackson.

In a candid and emotional appearance on The View, Priscilla Presley recently opened up about her highly anticipated new book, Softly, As I Leave You: Life After Elvis. Decades after the world first met her as the “King’s” bride, Priscilla is finally peeling back the curtain on the pressures of Graceland, the heartbreak of losing her daughter, and her unfiltered thoughts on the most controversial marriage in pop history.

Beyond the Legend: Who Was the Real Elvis Presley?

Priscilla’s memoir seeks to humanize the man behind the gold-studded jumpsuits. While the world saw a sex symbol, Priscilla saw a partner who was deeply vulnerable.

  • The Midnight Phone Calls: One of the most touching revelations is that Elvis and Priscilla stayed closer than ever after their 1972 divorce. Elvis would often call her at 3:00 AM to confess his fears and insecurities about his career.

  • The “Better Apart” Theory: Priscilla admits that their relationship actually improved after the marriage ended. Without the crushing pressure of being the “perfect couple,” they became each other’s ultimate confidants.

“Trad Wife” and the Gilded Cage

Priscilla describes her early years as a “trad wife” (traditional wife)—a term that might shock modern audiences. Despite having a full staff at Graceland, Priscilla insisted on tidying their bedroom and making the bed herself. She describes a life of “loving, leaving, and losing,” detailing the struggle to find her own identity in a world where she was always “Elvis’s wife.”

The Michael Jackson Controversy: “I Thought He Was Using Her”

Perhaps the most viral moment of the interview was Priscilla’s blunt assessment of her daughter Lisa Marie’s marriage to Michael Jackson.

Priscilla revealed she was “never a fan” of the arrangement. Her reasons were rooted in a mother’s intuition:

  1. The Publicity Angle: Priscilla felt that Michael Jackson, a lifelong Elvis fan, was using Lisa Marie to gain more publicity and link his name to the Presley legacy.

  2. The Public Persona: She observed that Michael thrived on the public eye, whereas Lisa Marie was just beginning to find her footing.

  3. The Idol Factor: Priscilla recalled Michael constantly praising Elvis to Lisa Marie, which raised her doubts about the true intentions behind his affection.

Remembering Lisa Marie: “A Toughy”

The memoir also serves as a tribute to her late daughter, Lisa Marie Presley, who passed away in 2023. Priscilla describes her as a “toughy” who “ruled the house” from a young age. This section of the book is expected to be a deeply emotional exploration of a mother’s grief and the unique bond they shared through the shadow of the King